men, women and money

DO you ever realise the one common quarrel between husbands and wives that sometimes can be so serious that "divorce" is the only solution to it?? Well, i have witnessed a couple of close friends, family members and experiencing it personally currently, Money.

Let me start with my parents. Mum have always been the one earning to let me have whatever i want, and to be honest i have never seen my father bringing "bread" home to feed the family. Mum never complained, mum never minded doing what she can for her family. But when one day dad was supposed to do some payments for the household, it was almost like killing him!
I didnt understand it until it was my turn.
When i was earning, everything spent was worth it. Everything bought was with taste and a neccesity. Every trip overseas were romantic. No complains were ever made. I could buy whatever i wanted for my brothers, aunt and families and friends. Life was perfect and happy between us, until i lost my job and i stopped working. Things changed. Now money spent is slashing flesh off my partner. It hurts him to spend on me like how i spend on him! Its a waste of money to go on trips, everything is bought as irrelevant. Everything spent is nonsense. Complaints are never ending stories..... Etc. It made me think back on my life. I think this is not the life that i want, i dont deServe such treatments from my partner who has taken his fair share of my happiness when i was earning back then and now im not entitled to have my share on his. And whats worse? He thinks he doesnt have any problem with his attitude!

Recently, my friend is facing the same problem with her husband, and things are worse. But the root of the problem is the same.

It sets me thinking, what can i do to solve this problem altogether? Im still thinking now and im sure once i get the formula, i will have a solution.

women= always generous with their men. Always generous with their families. Always generous in life. But forever stingy with themselves.

Men= always stingy with women, always stingy with families. always stingy in life. But forever generous with themselves.

its another week

Neoprints!!

another week has gone!!!! woohoo! hahah

Well, i have spent my week out with either my mum or my friend.. nothing really special but i cant wait for time to pass faster! hhahahaha

Went to Kinokuniya the other day and got myself a new book and i finished it within 2 days. The name of the book "Bones" .

Apparently this book is about a serial killer and he is a psycho.. haha ok, i know i shouldnt be reading psycho books now but wow its a thriller. hahaha oh!!

know what? i went to malaysia the other day and my hubby decided that the both of us should get a neoprint taken hahaha so lame right? but i went along anyway. He was a stone.... hahaha taking neoprints would mean that you have to take candid shots ma... so all mine were candid but yep manson took it well and played along haha. Sometimes its really fun just hanging out with him la!

I havent had so much fun in a long time........!!!!!! Among all the different pics up there i feel i like the green background one most!! its the sweetest!! LOL

快乐？不快乐？

快乐与不快乐的定义是什麽？



为什麽现在越来越多人要寻找快乐？
无论是学生或已踏入社会的人士，
难道是说现在的人与社会不管已经踏入21世纪了但却发现快乐难求？



到低人生应该为什麽而快乐？ 应该为什麽而不快乐呢？
而真正快乐的感觉是什麽呢？


我觉的没有人知道。


人的欲望是无限的，根本永远都不会满足。
那“知足尝乐” 是谁发明的呢？


知足就会尝到快乐吗？ 真的是这样吗？



我何时才会知足呢？