j&k + 8

Reality show TV this family.... the Gosselins.

I wonder if many of you actually watch this reality show, but it is really nice. Ok basically this couple who had twins wanted to have another child and thus they went for an op to have another baby. But they ended up with 6 more.

Its not easy to have so many kids and teaching and grooming them as they grow up, getting them to listen together, its harder than climbing mount everest in a day. (haha) But in the show, Kate(wife) did a real good job. I couldnt help but thought to myself that this woman is a real deal. And she is defintely a very good mother to get all her kids to listen to her and not get into a fit for the slightest reasons like many other children does. In other words i look up to her and for a moment she was the best mother i thought might never exist.

After catching a single episode, i got hooked to this reality show because i wanted to learn from her and her kids are all adorable and sweet. Good mannered as well! So i couldnt stop watching. Until i watch the season that she and Jon(husband) were filing for a separation. It all happened so fast... but i was determined to believe that it wasnt easy to have so many kids for a couple to pay attention to. Hence the separation to get more air and space between them. When kids are your priorities, you tend to forget the mutual emotional support and attention for each other as husband and wife. It was a pity, but no choice. All of the fans were sad because of this separation and after 5 years of watching the kids grow up and to face their parent;s divorce only at 5 years of age is not going to be easy.

Then Kate's brother came out and talked all about this reality show. Also reports from the Acedemy of children psychiatry has complaint about the couple in regards to this reality show. Apparently, 8 kids was never easy to begin with hence taking part in this reality show would defintely be able to provide for the family, and bringing all 8 kids to college.

The beggining of the show when the couple was approached, everything was already planned out and paid for. The production had already spoken to the couple and would see to their needs in regards to anything. Hence, all the trips and stuffs were being budget and paid for. The couple with 8 kids could even then afford to each quit their jobs and stay home with the children, do their hair at a salon, go for trips, play golf..etc. Infact the idea of a reality show is to show and teach other couples with sextuplets on how to prioritise their finances and time to their kids as to be good parents. However, this is too fairytale. The Academy actually mentioned in regards to the wrongs of this reality show as it seems the young children are the ones "working" to provide for the family. They had to trade their childhood to be shown to the world on tv to trade for whatever they have now.

As parents, the should be protecting their children and not exploiting them.

There were reports of producers staging the episodes so it may seem the family was having a great time. Many of the so called "traditions in the family" mentioned by kate in lots of episodes were actually fake. They tried to make the whole scene as beautiful and perfect as possible. There was even a scene by an insider stating that Mum was almost getting into a fit by one of the episodes saying " what, you mean now i have to enjoy playing with my kids?"

I mean, what kind of a perfect mummy would say that? im not sure cos even my mum doesnt say that. She just didnt play with me thats all. And another source added there were incidents of mummy punishing the kids by spanking them and they were screaming at the top of their lungs but due to perfect mum on reality tv, all these were not shown on it. So i was thinking just how real is this real-ity tv show? hm......

All the allegations, all kids are mischievious to some point in their lives. However, watching the realiy show, i didnt even think about how did she manage to keep her young children so well mannered and well behaved? so as the saying goes "spare the rod and spoil the child" huh? hahah how ironic.

As for dad, hm.. what can i say about him? loser? Well apparently evidence had shown that infact the couple had already been separated 2 years ago thus the divorce that is coming around the corner would be over faster. So it meant during the previos seasons that they have been looking so lovey dovey were all a show for this so called reality tv? aiyo..... what is this???

Overall, reports were claiming that this is actually mummy's fault because mummy likes to have wealth and fame and is hoping to be able to host a talkshow of her own. so...money grubber... i have nothing to say.

After seeing all those reports and the couple had admitted on the facts, i honestly am very disappointed.. i dont think i will ever watch it again.

Ash, hope you are reading this........ sad sad

me and the witch!!!!!!

the new pregnant me and Guo Liang the fab variety host!

Today i went to a variety show backstage. Saw Guo Liang and lee teng together with pornsak. Pretty friendly and nice people, so easy to talk to! especially guo liang. After a while i found that talking to him feels really good because he is so nice to others! he can talk about anything under the sun. I wanted to post this picture in facebook but i realised i have put on alot of pregnant weight so... hahaha im not ready to show the world how pregnant i am just yet!!! so ha!

Backstage was really fun! everyone was just practically sharing all the gossips that have been happening around, and talking about juicy details and news that is on covers for these few weeks. Then we saw the witch i mentioned above.

When i first saw her, i recognise her to be one of the famous singer from another country. I smiled at her and she smiled back. Well that was a friendly gesture until i decided i want to take pictures with the rest and last picture was her.
I asked the witch, " can i take a picture with you?"
and she replied, "erm, but can you hurry up because im in a hurry and i have things to do."
immediately i asked my friend if she wanted to be in the picture? and my friend said no. Everyone was shocked about the witch's remark.

I decided there and then that im going to put in facebook this picture and tell the whole world what a bad witch she is! PROUD is her first name, EVIL is her middle name and WITCH is her last name.

So my friends there in the backstage all started to laugh and said some nasty things in regards to her comments and in front of her face saying she is so "popular and famous". Well i must say that was a good one.

Then she goes in front of the television and tell the whole of singapore that she is so happy to be here and her purpose of her trip this time is actually too visit us, the singaporeans. But she forgot, do we as singaporeans really know who she is? hm..... i wonder. In a country that speaks ang moh i dont remember her being famous in our country and who cares if she is here or not. Anyways , her main reason i would say is to promote her concert here in singapore duting the period of august i suppose. She sings like her nose is gonna drop any moment!

Her nose looks fake too by the way and god knows maybe she might have fixed her nose before she was famous and the "failed" surgery actually helped her in her singing career if you get what i mean. hahahahahaha

oh my goodness im so mean...... bbut she deserves it. she pissed everyone off.

Ok, think i willl end of here then, am tired..... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..................

nights nights!

Women, what kind of creature do they belong to?

what is the difference of a man and a woman?

All along, man has been the breadwinner of a family. The stronger one in a relationship. Life has always been reallt unfair when ppl compare the lives of a man and a woman. Men always have an upperhand regardless of what.

But women, always a level/ grade lower than men.

However, there are some slight changes now.. women are much more independant and have created a saying “women do not need men to survive and they are well, but men without women surely die!” hahaha this is really a good one.

As per my title, 3 signatures of a woman.

First - Marriage

second - Separation

Third - Divorce

Women have the rights of the three factors in this era.

Most elders with the old conservative thinking would still not agree, but times are changing and each day more and more ppl are accepting this reality. Which personally i feel this is infact very good. Women should finally deserve such rights and respect from men and society.
The society that we are facing now comparing to 40 years ago(not to mention even longer before), civilisation has taken over and human rights are much more obvious. Women nowadays have proven their worth of being much more better than men.

Infact about 3 monnths ago, i personally attended a psychilogy course seminar, and the subjet that particular day happened to be “Genes” . The lecturer was putting in a strong point of a man and a woman. Making a comparison between the 2 species, and he as a male mentioned that women nowadays are independant and the human species infact do not require the male species other than their use of producing the next generation.

He mentioned man currently only have one use in the human world , which is producing sperms. For the next generation and they can start to “wait to die” . hahaha i was very fascinated with the way this lecturer was teaching and totally agreeing with his presentation. (fyi the whole seminar was for both male and female participants )

Women!! Live for yourself! you dont need man to survive! be it sexually or companionship, currently in this society, women have proven that they can satisfy all their needs without the help of men.

haha

my wedding

i got married! hahah well my hubby is not exactly the handsome type, nor the ah beng type. just a honest lad..... too naive though... haha anyways yep i have gone into the 2nd stage of my life and its just the beggining... :) im kindda excited though hahaha

i have put on some weight and my hubby is trying his best to put on as much as he can so that we will look good together! hahaha funny man but you know he is really putting on alot of weight now...

well i have a secret to share.... but i will share it not now but soon.............. stay tuned!

7th june 2009

happy birthday to me...happy birthday to me... happy birthday to me... happy birthday to me.....
yesterday was my 25th brithday and yet i was upset the whole day...... every year is a sad birthday.... you know sometimes i just wonder, why are birthdays celebrated? i mean what is the meaning of birthdays? and who is the person who decided that birthdays are to be celebrated? i really wonder.
but yesterday, i was really caught surprised, my ah leong brother hahah actually got me a birthday cake!!! sweet right?! even though he doesnt have money but he managed to get me a cake! i nearly cried.. i love my brother.
but before all these, everyone forgot my birthday. except for manson, ashley and rey.
as my life partner, manson should know my birthday and also because my birthday is 2 days away from his... he had to remember!!! then comes ashley, i told her the other day i bet everyone already forgot my birthday.. she made sure that she didnt. Rey's best wishes was the most surprising one.we hardly ever talk! and yet every year he would give me an sms to wish me a happy birthday.

isnt that sweet?

but the people around you all the time, imagine they all forgot your birthday.

hahaha how much do you mean to your friends? (i cant help but ask myself that)