welcome to the world baby sophia!!

welcome to the world you miracle

My bestie had just given birth and i just wanna say that im so proud of her.... Dont be mistaken the above picture is not her baby, but its a picture of a very cute infant hence i just put it up lor, i havent see how bably sophia look like yet so... hahaha but ash mentioned she has got daddy's nose and ash's eyes... awe aint that cute????

It felt like it was only last week i received a call from my bestie and she was telling me in a calm tone "im in my first trimester." hahahaha!!! At that very moment, i felt i had butterflies in my tummy and im so excited that i could throw up anytime!! She laughed at my reaction thinking i was crazy haha. But seriously i never expected her to be a mummy so fast hahaha!!! but then again, she officially went into the auntie league liao.

Time passed really fast. i was so uptight about it that i didnt encourage her to go out and made calls to her everytime asking her "where are you? " and when she replies that she is out i would start nagging.. haha so because i didnt know how to face it, i decided that i shouldnt know anything and hopefully like in all movies time pass like nobodies business and maybe before i know it she give birth already hahah.

But When she was in her 6th month, my turn came! She came over to my place and visit me, it was so nice.. then we went out to bitch about everything under the sun and talk like there's no tomorrow, basically all on pregnancy and childbirth . hahah well this is the auntie league so.... anyways then when i finally see her again, she is in her 36th week gonna give birth any time liao! man she was huge!! i meant her tummy la.. apparently baby sophia is really long.... hahahaha what a way to describe. so more space were needed for her model like legs. Hence my friend's tummy was like a balloon.. or should i say she looked pracically like a hot air balloon? hahaha!!! cute little preggy woman!!

Yesterday i called her and her husband picked up the phone saying she is in great pain and sorry aint able to talk to me, immediately i say its ok and after outting down the phone, i waited patiently but called my hubby to tell him it might be anytime soon because she is in pain already... then waited till this morning, my phone rang...sms... before i saw the sms i was so pissed off, it was like "wtf? its so early!! im gonna screw this person alive" then it stated ash and i rubbed my eyes to read the rest of the sms.. haha she gave birth already smoothly..!!!!

i must say i was so happy i woke up and never did continue my sleep haiz....After talking talking to her and knowing everything is fine, i want to make this day a day i will never forget so, tadah! i put it in my blog!!!!!!! hahaha so happy...

yawnz.... i think im going to sleep and dream of my turn to come.... woo!! so exciting!!! Am going to patiently wait for my turn to be like in the movie hoping the time would pass like nobodies business hahahhahaha

Baby sophia was born this morning at 6.35 +- am to Mr and Mrs Lau... Congrats my bestie...

Inconsiderate Singaporeans

Q: what do people from other countries have describes singaporeans as?

A: 有教育没教养。(basically it means sporeans have education but not "civilised". eg, no manners, proud, arrogant...etc)

hahaha how ironic, im a true blue sporean and i think so too! totally agreeing!!!!!

One very good example of typical disgrace:-

"giving up the seat to someone who needs it more than you do" (together with pictures stating pregnant women, old people, the disabled...etc)

Why do i say this? well you can say its a personal experience. I was in a MRT and was going to orchard for a walk, as you can see im pregnant. haha And anybody with eyes can see that my belly is popping out. It was after working hours time and as usual the crowd is there, so like any other people, i just stepped right in and took the train like others. Not trying to prove that im pregnant or what and defintely not looking at anyone with my bambi eyes trying to get them to offer me their seats, however, these people they look at you immediately pretend to be sleeping!! hahah i was shocked at all these behaviour! At least i wasnt like that last time! When ashley told me she had that experience loads of times i didnt thought of it serious then when i finally experienced it personally..... i couldnt be more disgusted with these ugly sporeans.

Outdoor seats but with a no smoking sign :-

i went to Mos Burger at a shopping center and the indoor seats were all taken upand whats left are the outdoor seats hence no choice me and manson went to take the outdoor seats. Because there were no smoking signs around the area and so we figured it was alright then the smell came... public smokers. They just couldnt be bothered with the signs, stood there and start puffing away! can you believe it? Its like hello??? there are kids and pregnant women out here eating? CANT YOU SEE? i was a smoker myself once and i always make initiative to move away from kids and pregnant women but how it it there are people out there who cant be bothered? And they are mojority men. MEN!!! If its your kids and wife out there, would you smoke in their faces???? how can people be so inconsiderate??

And to all the inconsiderate smokers in the world, i on behalf of all the pregnant women and children wanna say : "IF WE WANTED TO SMELL YOUR SMOKE, WE WOULD RATHER SMOKE OURSELVES BETTER THAN BEING 2ND HAND SMOKERS THAT CREATES MORE HARM TO OUR BODIES!!!!"

my happy life..

Our matching tattoos....

my favourite kingyos

traces of our footsteps... taking the first steps towards the future

Manson and i did a matching tattoo together, basically you guys may think that im stupid to do matching tattoos but i thought it was nice, and we made it more of individuality hence if we ever break up whatsoever, it will still look special. Then he went to have another one tattooed on his back, a picture of 2 goldfishes. He knows that i love goldfishes and so he did one. representing me and him together.. silly but sweet.

You know how sometimes things can be so funny. You will never know what happiness is until you have lived through it, seen through it and cried through it. I never thought that i would find happiness living with another person one day, but i did. And guess what? i just realised it a few days ago...

I have been listening to friends complaining about their other halves and i have been through heartless relationships as well. And along the way, i have learnt so much so much. Now that im all grown up, i realised sometimes i look at relationships in a very "reasonable" way. Or should i say im so calm about so many things that its kindda "over" .

i spent the last weekend all day at home basically in my room with my hubby and it was the 1st time we ever spent quality time together like that. We talked like we have endless topics and just chilled out. Its not that we have never had any communication but usually i will be the one talking and he will be the one listening and agreeing to whatever i say, but this time, its different. He actually made an effort to open his mind and talked with me. i must say im so proud of him. haha proud because he always had a problem with words and we can never talk properly because sometimes i cant express myself in mandarin properly and he doesnt much understand when i speak english... okok i admit we have a communication breakdown also due to languages...

But i must say after spending the last 2 days just with him and just at home, i realised so many things that i should have known 1 year ago.

I realised how many things he had lost because of wanting us to be together, giving me whatever i want and need. And yet all these while i had never spared any thought for him and taking it all for granted. He put up with all my nonsense for so long and yet i was never grateful. constantly ignoring him, neglecting his feelings and scolding him for his naive stupidity. i was such a terrible terrible person!!! Amd he never once did talk back nor scream back in my face. Not once. i realised, how many men out there can do all these things just because they love their wives? Hahaha for my case i know only 1 and that 1 is my husband... hahahah how funny.

Guess what i did after all these thoughts? hahah i wrote him a letter. A letter with all the wrongs that i have done, and i apologised. He was so happy that he nearly cried. placed the letter nicely in his bag and bring it with him everyday, everywhere he went, for the sake of reading it as and when he like. haha cute.

Just a letter, and he forgave me or can i say he has never blamed me for anything. He blames himself for not able to be what i want him to be... just a letter , everything that i have done to him is basically just love. And he is happy.

What can i say??